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		<title>Six Flags And Dread(loc)ks</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jun 2010 17:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sheena</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://sophistishe.com/2010/06/six-flags-dreadlocks-debacle/"><img align="right" hspace="5" width="125" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3248/4554233450_a66a87b501.jpg" class="alignright wp-post-image tfe" alt="locs" title="" /></a>A few days ago, I wrote a post about an incredible deal Walmart had going on for Six Flags this summer. In return for that post, I received four tickets to Six Flags. Exciting right? Especially since we are in need of a fun family getaway. Well&#8230; It has come to my attention that there has been a case of Six Flags theme parks refusing to hire individuals who wear their hair in dread(loc)ks. Six Flags does not permit this &#8220;extreme&#8221; hairstyle as it detracts from Six Flags&#8217; theme. Here we go&#8230; &#8220;Six Flags enforces a conservative grooming policy across [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>A few days ago, I wrote a post about an incredible deal Walmart had going on for Six Flags this summer. In return for that post, I received four tickets to Six Flags. Exciting right? Especially since we are in need of a fun family getaway. </p>
<p>Well&#8230;</p>
<p>It has come to <a target="_blank" rel="nofollow" href="http://cutiebootycakes.blogspot.com/2010/06/boycotting-six-flags.html"  target="_blank">my attention</a> that there has been a case of Six Flags theme parks refusing to hire individuals who wear their hair in dread(loc)ks. Six Flags does not permit this &#8220;extreme&#8221; hairstyle as it detracts from Six Flags&#8217; <em>theme</em>. </p>
<p>Here we go&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Six Flags enforces a conservative grooming policy across all parks. The policy does not permit certain hairstyles such as variations in hair colors, dreadlocks, partially shaved heads, tails, and hairstyles that impair vision. Braided hair is allowed but must be in neat, even rows and without beads or other ornaments.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t matter long or short, thin, thick, clean, or dirty; just dread(loc)ks in general. Meh.</p>
<p>Since braids (long or short) are allowed, it isn&#8217;t a matter of the dreadlocks (long ones) being hazardous to the rides or food. If that was really the issue, why not ask that those with long hair in general to neatly pin it up and those working in food put on a hair net?</p>
<p>It just makes no sense.</p>
<p>Personally, I feel that men and women with dread(loc)ks look more mature than those with braids in their hair. And the people who I know that wear their hair this way carry themselves in a respectable manner and prove to be as intelligent and insightful as people who choose to wear their hair in other styles. </p>
<p>In <a target="_blank" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.essence.com/entertainment/commentary_4/commentary_six_flags_dreadlocks.php"  target="_blank" >this Essence article</a>, it states that a lady with locs who worked at Six Flags previously with no problems, was asked to come back to work for another season&#8230;but only if she changed her appearance. So obviously, she rocked her position, but her hair was a little <em>too much</em> for the Six Flags image.</p>
<p>The types of jobs available at Six Flags are great part time jobs for teens and young adults. They are not white collar jobs where grooming standards would be a little more strict. Six Flags is a theme park; a place that promotes fun. A diverse group of people seek entertainment at Six Flags from all walks, races, and hair styles. Having employees that represent their customers totally makes sense. It&#8217;s good for business, but maybe Six Flags missed that memo.</p>
<p>My hair is loc&#8217;d. It is the best decision I&#8217;ve made next to leaping into wearing my hair natural and chemical free. I take pride in my hair. I wash it <em>regularly = as needed for my hair type and physical environment</em>. Natural hair has been growing out of my scalp for four years and boy was it a journey transitioning from stringy chemical treated hair to my natural untreated curls. And then there was the two year journey of watching my hair evolve from two strand twists to beautiful locs. What grows on top of my head shows that I did not give up. I am just as approachable as someone without locs. I don&#8217;t hug trees, get high, or walk around like a little lady militant. </p>
<p>Locs are just multiple strands of hair bound together to make thicker strands. These thicker strands can be styled in just about any style imaginable. <em>What is so extreme about that?</em></p>
<p>Because of this debacle, I cannot in good conscience keep the Six Flags promo post up or visit Six Flags theme parks until they make <em>reasonable</em> revisions to their grooming policy. I am disappointed that a company that I stood by has been caught slipping over something as silly as a hairstyle. And yes, to many individuals, it is more than a hairstyle, it is a way of self expression and empowerment just as any hair style may be. <em>But what&#8217;s wrong with that?</em> And since there is a much stronger <em>story</em> behind this specific hairstyle, it just flusters the hell out of folks.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s so much more going on in the world today that we need to be worrying about rather than how we, as human beings, wear our hair.</p>
<p>I am sorry to those who may have gotten offended by the previous Six Flags post. I am sorry to those who commented in excitement because that deal was pretty darn good. Know that if you choose to take advantage of the savings, I absolutely <strong>WILL NOT</strong> hold it against you. </p>
<p>Now, to plan a new family adventure for us elsewhere. And here&#8217;s to hoping their grooming policy won&#8217;t bite me in the ass too.</p>
<p>#thatisall</p>
<p>#carryon</p>
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		<title>Using Sofn’Free n&#8217;Pretty GroHealthy On My Boy</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Apr 2010 09:28:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sheena</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://sophistishe.com/2010/04/using-sofn%e2%80%99free-npretty-grohealthy-on-my-boy/"><img align="right" hspace="5" width="125" height="125" src="http://sophistishe.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/grohealthy-150x150.jpg" class="alignright wp-post-image tfe" alt="grohealthy" title="grohealthy" /></a>Before having Jayden, we decided that we would not give him haircuts. We&#8217;d let his hair grow out and if he decided he wanted it cut when he got older, we&#8217;d allow it. His hair growth is pretty much at a standstill. I&#8217;d like to be able to style it in braids and twists, but I realize that without a routine and good products, his hair will not grow. For a long time he only had bangs because his hair fell out due to cradle cap. So considering, his hair is now full and in great condition; just not as [...]]]></description>
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<p>Before having Jayden, we decided that we would not give him haircuts. We&#8217;d let his hair grow out and if he decided he wanted it cut when he got older, we&#8217;d allow it. His hair growth is pretty much at a standstill. I&#8217;d like to be able to style it in braids and twists, but I realize that without a routine and good products, his hair will not grow. For a long time he only had bangs because his hair fell out due to cradle cap. So considering, his hair is now full and in great condition; just not as long as <em>I think</em> it could be.</p>
<p>His hair is soft with a pretty nice curl pattern. It stays dry and since he likes to roll all in the carpet, it attracts lint and whatever else.</p>
<p>We had the opportunity to try Sof n’Free n&#8217;Pretty <a target="_blank" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.mmproducts.com/brand-grohealthy.php"  target="_blank">GroHealthy products</a>. The products are catered towards children of various ethnic groups prone to specific hair or scalp problems: shedding, thinning, temple and nape damage, breaking, and chronic dryness. What won me over is the fact that the products are made with natural ingredients and contain no mineral oil and petrolatum. While they are not 100% &#8220;green&#8221;, they are an affordable solution to higher end natural hair care products and can be found in various <a target="_blank" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.mmproducts.com/retail-locations.php"  target="_blank">local stores</a>. </p>
<p>We&#8217;ve been using GroHealthy products for two months and have received pretty good results as far as moisturizing is concerned. I usually start by squirting a few drops of  the <a target="_blank" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.mmproducts.com/retail/product_info.php?cPath=3_24&#038;products_id=61"  target="_blank">Growth Oil with Olive &#038; Soybean Oils</a> into my hands and I massage it into his scalp. That is followed by massaging in a few dollups of <a target="_blank" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.mmproducts.com/retail/product_info.php?cPath=3_24&#038;products_id=62"  target="_blank">Olive Oil Growth Lotion</a>. Next, I add a little more Growth Oil. Then, I gently pick or comb his hair and scrunch his curls with my fingers. Twice a week, I use the <a target="_blank" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.mmproducts.com/retail/product_info.php?cPath=3_24&#038;products_id=60"  target="_blank">Thick and Healthy Olive Oil Cream</a> in place of the Olive Oil Growth Lotion. I usually will do this after washing and conditioning his hair for extra moisture.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a before and after shot of his hair once dry and full of lint and then after a wash, condition, and GroHealthy treatment with the Growth Oil and Olive Oil Cream. As you can see, his hair went from looking a little rough to nice and moisturized with a healthy shine.</p>
<p style="text-align: center; font-size: 8pt"><a target="_blank" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sophistishe/4372595780/"  title="Before | After by sophistishe, on Flickr" target="_blank"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4016/4372595780_a943f6b4f9.jpg" width="500" height="264" alt="Using Sofn’Free nPretty GroHealthy On My Boy Sophistishe mommy blog" class="pic" title="Using Sofn’Free nPretty GroHealthy On My Boy Sophistishe" /></a><br/><em>GroHealthy doesn&#8217;t magically get rid of lint; that I had to pick out myself :).</em></p>
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<p>Overall, I am pleased with the products and how they perform. I do wish they didn&#8217;t contain parabens. I&#8217;m on this mission to a greener lifestyle, but I realize I can&#8217;t always have my cake and eat it too. I plan on trying out more natural hair care products, those of which may be higher end and sold online. If I&#8217;m in between purchases, I know I can grab GroHealthy as an affordable solution.</p>
<p><b>Price:</b> Olive Oil Growth Lotion 8.8oz ($5.99), Thick and Healthy Olive Oil Cream 8.8oz ($6.99), Growth Oil With Olive &#038; Soybean Oils 8.8oz ($6.29)<br />
<span style="color: #8ab100"><strong>Green-worthy Stats:</strong></span> GroHealthy products are not 100% &#8220;green&#8221; but they are made of healing, growth-enhancing natural ingredients such as aloe vera, almond oil, nettle, arnica, shea butter, rosemary, silk protein, soybean oil, sunflower seed oil, tea tree oil, honey, vitamin e, and olive oil. They contain no <a target="_blank" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.mmproducts.com/faq-main-grohealthy.php"  target="_blank">mineral oil and petrolatum</a>. Parabens, however, are present.</p>
<div class="sminfo"><img align="left" class="pic" src="http://sophistishe.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/GroHealthysoftpretty.gif" alt="Using Sofn’Free nPretty GroHealthy On My Boy Sophistishe mommy blog" title="GroHealthysoftpretty" width="150" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1231" /></a> GroHealthy is the very first children&#8217;s product line made to treat specific hair or scalp problems: shedding, thinning, temple and nape damage, breaking, and chronic dryness.</p>
<p>Extensions, chemical use, braiding and even everyday brushing and combing can damage your little girl&#8217;s fragile, young hair. Now you can restore and repair it with new GroHealthy.
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		<title>I thought The Princess and the Frog would be my babysitter.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 01:40:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://sophistishe.com/2010/03/i-thought-the-princess-and-the-frog-would-be-my-babysitter/"><img align="right" hspace="5" width="125" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4026/4463578526_fc074180a7.jpg" class="alignright wp-post-image tfe" alt="chill2" title="" /></a>And the winners are: Loni (trippyjanet) &#038; Sheila (skkorman)! Congrats! This afternoon I decided to pop in a DVD in hopes of entertaining Jayden while I attempted to get some work done on my laptop. We had received The Princess and the Frog Blu-ray Combo Pack last week, so I thought that would be a good choice. I loaded up the Blu-ray Disc Player and toggled with the surround sound. As soon as the movie began, his eyes instantly became glued to the big screen. I thought, &#8220;Ok maybe this could work. For real this time.&#8221; He danced to the [...]]]></description>
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<p style="color:#ff0000">And the winners are: Loni (trippyjanet) &#038; Sheila (skkorman)! Congrats!</p>
<p>This afternoon I decided to pop in a DVD in hopes of entertaining Jayden while I attempted to get some work done on my laptop. We had received The Princess and the Frog <a target="_blank" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0034JKZ3G?tag=sophistishe-20&#038;camp=213381&#038;creative=390973&#038;linkCode=as4&#038;creativeASIN=B0034JKZ3G&#038;adid=02WZPMDQTMW63CBGK3Z7&#038;"  target="_blank">Blu-ray Combo Pack</a> last week, so I thought that would be a good choice. I loaded up the Blu-ray Disc Player and toggled with the surround sound.</p>
<p>As soon as the movie began, his eyes instantly became glued to the big screen. I thought, &#8220;Ok maybe this could work. For real this time.&#8221; He danced to the tunes, he sat on the coffee table, he ran off and played with toys, and lounged in his chair. He laughed. He pointed. He whined for cookties, wawa, and paci. Then he started to itch. And I got my hands all greasy slathering him in ointment. He wanted to snuggle. He tossed and turned. He held on to my fingers for security. He got up and played with his toys and came back for more snuggles. I started to feel as though my mission had failed and this movie was only playing for my pleasure.</p>
<p>When the movie ended, he fell asleep and I snuck off into the office. It was my wish that I&#8217;d get some work done this afternoon, only that didn&#8217;t happen. So I will be staying up a little late tonight until that wish does come true.</p>
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